I know that
most of you have heard the saying that Girls are from Venus and Men are from
Mars. This is mainly driven the fact that men and women are so much different
in the way they approach life, in the way they think and react to certain
situations. Men are more logical but most of the time use their balls to do the
thinking for them. Women are mostly emotional and would let their emotions play
on their decision making. I have seen many women over rationalize how men
decide and play the game of love. I am doing you a favor and I am spilling the
beans so that you know if a guy is really into you or not.
Men are simple thinkers- there is nothing complex about the way men think when it comes to relationships. When you think a guy is not into you even when the signs are telling you that he is. Stop thinking that way. Guys are not diabolic like women.
If a guy shows his good side all the time, run away- Guys are naturally unromantic . If a guy is romantic to you just like in the movies, spoils you like you are the only girl in the world, spends most of his time daily talking to you, you are officially a project. A guy would surely want to get in your pants. Guys who are truly interested in women would act normally. He will show you his bad side, spend his free time during the day on you, make you feel important occasionally at start. The intensity of this will be higher and higher as you move in your relationship and his world will never revolve around you in the beginning (say 2 years or so). Remember, if the guy is too good to be true he just wants to have babies with you. He will become a monster in 6 months time. You may start counting now.
Never trust sweet talkers- women are suckers for guys who speak well, who write well, who sell well. Real guys will only share their real feelings in time. Guys don't fall in love overnight. Guys are not like girls. We are not emotional, we don't get our emotions in the way when we decide on something specially in relationships. Most of the time we decide on convenience. It is a bad fact but it is true. Usually guys will fall for women who are near their side, who are near where they live and work, women who make an effort to be within reach. They want to keep their love within line of sight since guys are visual and physical. Guys will only fully love a woman after several pieces fall into the right places like, the lady is always within arm’s length, if the girl is accepted by his family and friends, if the girl gives the guy food and most of all gets herself involved in the guys grooming and interest. These are all the things that cave women do to men to make men fall for them, to make men provide for them.
Men are smarter than you think- Some women think that men are idiots because of the simplicity of how men think. Look at the facts ladies, men invented almost everything that you see around you, men authored many books, discovered gravity, decoded the laws of physics, and made the airline routes as we know it. Men are very analytic and will be able to piece everything together if you are not into them and if you have another man on the side. We won't say a thing but we know so don't even try. That's the time that guys will play with the girl's feelings, and that is the time where most budding relationships end. Most cheating men were made by cheating women.
Contrary to popular belief, most men are really not polygamous- Most men would want to just focus on one girl, this is because men's decision are affected by convenience. 1 woman is better than many because men don't want to care for a lot of women it is that simple. Women on the other hand is a caring specie, women gravitate on problematic men thinking that they can help them (this will be the next subject of my blog). But I know the ladies out there reading this would contest that men are not polygamous. That will be explained in my next topic below.
Beware of the Alpha Male- Since we started to walk upright, we kind of forgot that we are primates too. In a primate colony there will always be alpha males, they crave to dominate other males and would want to mate with all the female primates in the colony. With us Homosapiens it is the same. Human alpha males are usually involved in competitive environments such as sports, politics, male pageants etc. They always want to compete and prove to everyone that they are the best of the species. They feel like they own and will be able to get every lady that crosses their path. Unfortunately, majority of the female species would react positively to this due to the fact that most females are hard wired to mate only with the best male specimen. So beware of that emotion. Most men classified as an alpha male will never be yours, will never be content with one girl, and would always find another female to mate with. So to women out there, please use this knowledge to guide you on how to select the right mate.
Men are simple thinkers- there is nothing complex about the way men think when it comes to relationships. When you think a guy is not into you even when the signs are telling you that he is. Stop thinking that way. Guys are not diabolic like women.
If a guy shows his good side all the time, run away- Guys are naturally unromantic . If a guy is romantic to you just like in the movies, spoils you like you are the only girl in the world, spends most of his time daily talking to you, you are officially a project. A guy would surely want to get in your pants. Guys who are truly interested in women would act normally. He will show you his bad side, spend his free time during the day on you, make you feel important occasionally at start. The intensity of this will be higher and higher as you move in your relationship and his world will never revolve around you in the beginning (say 2 years or so). Remember, if the guy is too good to be true he just wants to have babies with you. He will become a monster in 6 months time. You may start counting now.
Never trust sweet talkers- women are suckers for guys who speak well, who write well, who sell well. Real guys will only share their real feelings in time. Guys don't fall in love overnight. Guys are not like girls. We are not emotional, we don't get our emotions in the way when we decide on something specially in relationships. Most of the time we decide on convenience. It is a bad fact but it is true. Usually guys will fall for women who are near their side, who are near where they live and work, women who make an effort to be within reach. They want to keep their love within line of sight since guys are visual and physical. Guys will only fully love a woman after several pieces fall into the right places like, the lady is always within arm’s length, if the girl is accepted by his family and friends, if the girl gives the guy food and most of all gets herself involved in the guys grooming and interest. These are all the things that cave women do to men to make men fall for them, to make men provide for them.
Men are smarter than you think- Some women think that men are idiots because of the simplicity of how men think. Look at the facts ladies, men invented almost everything that you see around you, men authored many books, discovered gravity, decoded the laws of physics, and made the airline routes as we know it. Men are very analytic and will be able to piece everything together if you are not into them and if you have another man on the side. We won't say a thing but we know so don't even try. That's the time that guys will play with the girl's feelings, and that is the time where most budding relationships end. Most cheating men were made by cheating women.
Contrary to popular belief, most men are really not polygamous- Most men would want to just focus on one girl, this is because men's decision are affected by convenience. 1 woman is better than many because men don't want to care for a lot of women it is that simple. Women on the other hand is a caring specie, women gravitate on problematic men thinking that they can help them (this will be the next subject of my blog). But I know the ladies out there reading this would contest that men are not polygamous. That will be explained in my next topic below.
Beware of the Alpha Male- Since we started to walk upright, we kind of forgot that we are primates too. In a primate colony there will always be alpha males, they crave to dominate other males and would want to mate with all the female primates in the colony. With us Homosapiens it is the same. Human alpha males are usually involved in competitive environments such as sports, politics, male pageants etc. They always want to compete and prove to everyone that they are the best of the species. They feel like they own and will be able to get every lady that crosses their path. Unfortunately, majority of the female species would react positively to this due to the fact that most females are hard wired to mate only with the best male specimen. So beware of that emotion. Most men classified as an alpha male will never be yours, will never be content with one girl, and would always find another female to mate with. So to women out there, please use this knowledge to guide you on how to select the right mate.
